Dating can be quite a challenge the second time around. By the time we approach midlife we’re not expecting silliness and immaturity in our potential partners. But too often it seems that men in their 50’s and older quickly turn into little boys, obsessed with sex. I’ve found that older men who find themselves …
Talking about sex
Every day we hear messages about sex. They’re typically negative. And sadly we often believe them. We have so many questions that feel too big, too embarrassing to ask. Let’s look at them. And talk about them. Eeeeew….Old people having sex. That’s gross Sex is only for procreation. Sex is dirty. Men love sex, women don’t. …
We all know that women are considered the “talkers” and men are the “doers”. But ask a group of women how comfortable they are talking about sex with a partner and you’ll find that we aren’t all that talkative. Our communication skills around intimacy and sex could stand a little boost! As a rule, women in …
That same school year when my daughter informed all the kids on the playground that I was a porn star, I came home from work and found her looking through the B volume of the encyclopedia. Yes, this was before Wikipedia. She flipped the pages with a very intense look on her face. “What are you looking …