Intimacy Without Orgasms My last article in the recent vibrator series was about orgasms, but I don’t feel comfortable with all the hoopla over orgasms. I also don’t think that orgasms are, or should be, the main reason we have sex, though I am a big fan. And, I know my opinion runs contrary to …
Using a Vibrator For Sexual Health in Midlife Let’s talk about the health aspect of using vibrators. Last month I talked about how to use a vibrator and shared some basic tips to make vibrator use more pleasurable. Today I want to give you several reasons to use a vibrator. The main reason we use …
Some things are meant to be dry. A good, white wine. A well-shaken martini. A particular joke. Some, not so much. That which falls in the “not-so-much-and-beyond” category is my vagina. Yep. There-I said it, for all the world to hear. According my gynecologist, that is the current climate of my “oh so precious” lady parts. Now, I …
We’ve all faked it at least once, right? I think faking orgasms does both you and your partner a huge disservice. When we find ourselves needing to fake pleasure it’s a sign that things aren’t going well in the bedroom. This article I published last year on Walker Thornton is relevant to our sex lives today. …
Last month an article on the website Health.com touted “Getting Risky” as one of the best ways to have a truly phantasmagorical orgasm. The article suggested couples try hiking in precipitous climes as the kind of risk one might take in order to have an orgasmic whopper. Unfortunately, all this brought to mind for me …
