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Dating can be quite a challenge the second time around. By the time we approach midlife we’re not expecting silliness and immaturity in our potential partners. But too often it seems that men in their 50’s and older quickly turn into little boys,   obsessed with sex. I’ve found that older men who find themselves …

Read More about Sex, Dating, and Immaturity at Midlife

As Midlife Boulevard’s sexual health columnist I write about sex and matters related to our sexual journeys through midlife and beyond. This article isn’t really about sex and yet, when things aren’t working well in one aspect of our life there’s a good chance that our intimate relationships will reflect that imbalance. So, it is …

Read More about Using Your Voice to Express Your Needs

It was a day of playful distractions as I emailed back and forth with a former lover. It started with my comment that he rarely used endearments unless he had consumed a beer or two. Stone cold sober he started sending short messages the next morning—on his way to the airport at 5:45 am. Doll. …

Read More about Words Matter–In Real Life and In Intimate Relationships