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15 Things I Learned While Blogging

Last month marked nine months since I published my first post for this blog. For us women, in particular, nine months holds a certain significance, so I was prompted to reflect on what I’ve learned. First of all, I’d have to say that, to a great extent, what I’ve learned would fall in the techy column. When I started, I’d never heard of a widget, I didn’t know how to create hyperlinks or embed a video or dozens of other things I’ve only learned (and relearned) when I needed to use them.

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Here are some other things I’ve discovered along the way:

  1. Basically, only bloggers read blogs. Many of my friends and acquaintances enjoy reading, but blogs are not on their radar screen. Some subscribe to my blog, but still do not read it. You can’t convert everyone, nor should you take it personally (unless, maybe, you’re talking immediate family). Just keep on blogging, and you’ll find your audience.
  2. Writing whatever/whenever/however you want is definitely liberating and fun. If you get too far afield, though, it will be harder to find—and retain—readers.
  3. You can learn a lot from experimenting, even—especially—when you fail.
  4. On the whole, the kid lit community is welcoming, supportive, honest and of course, creative.
  5. Some bloggers are only about self-promotion and what’s in it for them, a few only want to do good, and most people fall somewhere else on the spectrum. This is like life.
  6. One thing leads to another. Since I started blogging, I have become acquainted with people (real and virtual), projects and ideas I would not have otherwise encountered.
  7. People love a good recipe.
  8. Even though your material may be entertaining, useful and educational, you still may not have the readership you hoped for or feel you deserve. At that point, if you want to continue blogging, you will need a good answer as to why you are doing it. This is not an answer for others, but one that resonates strongly with you. For me, I like feeling that I’m engaging creatively with the world.
  9. Checking your stats can be informative and interesting; however, obsessively checking your stats is about as useful as… well, obsessively doing anything.
  10. I get a kick out of knowing that someone in Thailand read my mom’s sweet and sour meatball recipe and might be serving it for dinner.
  11. I remembered that I like to write.
  12. Many, many people want to use their words and tell their story.
  13. There is an almost endless amount of helpful information on other people’s blogs, but it’s not healthy to live on-line. Find a balance.
  14. As your blog evolves and you find your voice, it will become clearer what you want to write about. It might not be exactly what you envisioned, and that’s fine. Let your passion(s) dictate the content.
  15. People love lists.

    Read more from Belinda Brock on her blog, Grandbooking

Belinda Brock

My background is in teaching and educational publishing. Currently, I am a writing coach working with students who are applying for college, graduate or professional school. I am in the midst of setting up a small publishing company to publish my children's stories. My blog, Grandbooking, focuses on children, books and literacy.

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Friday 24th of January 2014

I really enjoyed your post! Great observations - especially regarding balance :-)

belinda brock

Friday 24th of January 2014

thanks, lynne. i'd love to be able to make—and keep— a schedule when it comes to the internet, but no luck, so far ;-)


Friday 24th of January 2014

hi phoebe, happy to meet a sister blogger! you make good points—blogging and tweeting definitely go hand-in–hand; i do believe people appreciate unbiased reviews, but so far, i've only been sent books. :)

Phoebe Wulliman Graber

Friday 24th of January 2014

I can so relate to your post! I, too, have recently hit my 9 month mark! I think I'd add something about social media. I've learned that I enjoy Twitterosphere! I've also learned people like an honest non-affiliated product review...for me it was the Jockey bra :).

barbara miller

Thursday 23rd of January 2014

Wonderful post by Belinda .I've been reading her posts over the last year and they are always entertaining, informative, and insightful. Her most recent post of cooking with kids and grandkids was fun and I got to use a couple of her ideas with my own grandkids. And she certainly knows her books!


Friday 24th of January 2014

thanks, barbara, i appreciate your kind comments and am always glad when you stop back to let me know how my suggestions worked out!

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